Laz, your statement "I guess you have trouble paying bills in general" is a personal attack which I don't think I've ever seen from you before.
I apologize Xanadu; it was a double entendre that I didn't intend (this time) in my rush to post. I didn't mean to impugn your financial habits but to assert that you might find the prevailing common billing practices of virtually all business *distressing*. The trouble I meant was emotional, not fiscal.
However your response points up my assertion that perhaps you are a little too willing to take the oppositional position and do glorify it a little too much. I care not a whit for Yeltsin's boozing I care a lot about his corruption and exploitation that led to a Kleptocracy and oligarchy in Russia that rivals some of the worst aspects of the Czarists regimes. In fact it was so incompetent that it practically begged for a strongman response that Putin gave to the Russian people and they in turn feel valid in choosing.
Just because we claim altruistic motives it does not absolve us from the consequences of our actions. I happen to have no problem with encouraging the kind of debate over our practices here that you have embarked upon in a number of threads but I am suggesting that it is invalid to dismiss some of the replies just because they don't meet your objectives (whatever they are). You still must serve practical realities and a system like this must have revenue to survive and defining it as just a social organization is invalid. None of us that founded this organization did so with the intent that it should be *just* a social gathering place for like minded individuals.
We certainly feel that we can do something constructive with the funds we take in and we encourage the Full Members who contribute to a be a very close part of the decision making as to what to do with those funds. we also feel that those that make an investment are more committed than those who don't and I lobbied during the development of the dues process to include alternative donations that might be defined in the form of labor and other than cash. Certainly this idea that people contribute is not what you object to?
Is it?
Because if it is then perhaps we are dealing with a psychology of entitlement such that you feel that this organization owes you something. Do you really think it does?
If you and others seek to develop your own social network I encourage it. I do think there is room for more than one such organization like ours and I feel we would all benefit from the competition. So if you and Lightowl think that is the best use of your efforts so as not to be *co-opted* into the workings of this organization then please follow your hearts and create the competition.
However I think that those who really want to see constructive changes in this organization do so from within and making a commitment, not by sitting in judgement outside and complaining about how they are expected to contribute. We seriously need people to work on a multitude of projects, there is no lack of ideas and some of those include the development of things like *official standards* for moderation. You and Lightowl may think it is being co-opted to work from the inside to develop those standards but I and others think it is a *cop-out* to complain and NOT participate in making AND enforcing those standards that you are a part of creating.
Some people seem to think today that a democracy is a spectator sport, perhaps this is the result of the Mcluhan Mad TV generation but it isn't. Democracy is a
participatory sport and a competition that defies entitlement because once you think that someone owes you rights you have basically lost them by ceding power to them to protect your rights. You have no rights go undefended.
You are not best defending your rights with respect to decision making for this organization by sitting outside complaining about what is transpiring inside when no one is denying you access to being inside and contributing to the process constructively. However you also must learn that in a democracy you are not always going to like the will of the majority and right now the majority appears mostly against your view or indifferent to it.